Sunday, July 18, 2010

REALLY?

This is how I feel a lot lately......
I love my kids, I do!
I do not love the summer fights and nit picking at each other.
I do not love hearing  "I am bored"  so many times a day that if I hear it again I may actually curl up into the fetal position and cry.
I am not an entertainment crew, my kids are Sooo-O confused.
I do not love the evasion of chores. Really? I can Fiiiiind you....... There is no hiding from me.
I am very scheduled and I have things for them to do. I have crayons, toys,  a water slide out back. I have day camps and fun in the sun. I have syncro swimming, and basketball camps. I have a daily schedule written for the oldest, and points to earn that make for good times and good fun. I have a Wii and a computer. I have books and a kid participating in a summer book club. Did you say you were bored? REALLY?
We have even had in town visitors for 3 4 days. My parents called their AC was out and with my Mom having MS the heat is No bueno. I gladly volunteered to have them spend the night. One night turned into three four and my kids were in heaven. It wasn't so bad for me either. My Mom did a lot of dishes, changed a lot of diapers, and washed a lot of dirty hands and faces. They finally got to go home to a cool house and at 10:30 that night I got a call that they would need to stay again. Their plumbing was backing up all over their house.
Really?? Poor parents. I don't think I have had such a lack of sleep in a long time, even with 8 kids. You would think we had not seen each other in years instead of them just living 10 minutes away. My kids were so sad to see them leave.
I really wish these last three weeks of summer would go by smoothly. REALLY? I know there is no chance of that happening so I guess I will just keep muddling through and remember that I will REALLY miss these days when they are gone.

5 comments:

tammy said...

It really is hard to believe that you'll miss it but you will. I was looking at some of the pics when the boys were little, and I so miss them being that age. I don't even remember them ever having a tantrum now or the fighting, but I remember the funny things they did and said and the snuggles on my lap and the kisees and the cute chubby cheeks and I miss it all.

mCat said...

I can only say - I PROMISE - you will miss these days!

Keep up the good fight!

Jenni said...

Really? I hate it when people say that, because I can't seem to see it either! You are SUPER mom!!!!

Robyn said...

Amen Sistah! I hear ya! I'm taking hope in what your previous comments said about not remembering and I'm going to relishing in the summer fights...maybe...we'll see. Keep up the great work!

blah, blah by lindsey said...

i understand completely! i am ready to live my closet and let them run wild....

probably not a good idea though